Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Passport

We got 'em!


And that's about all the energy I have to post. We were out and about all day and have an early day to start tomorrow. All looks great for making our flight on Thursday. Things should be fine with the Embassy and visas but please continue to pray as there are no promises made.


With that said...I'm not sure when my next post will be. If you don't "hear" from me on here for a while, it is probably safe to assume we are headed home on schedule. Thank you SO much for all of your prayers...now let's get home safely.


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Monday, November 23, 2009

Passports Tomorrow?

No passports today :(
We are told they "should" be ready tomorrow. Yana will call after 2 to find out. This is our last chance to make our flight on Thursday so prayers are definitely appreciated.

Well, need to be up early in the morning to accomplish other things to stay on track so that's all for tonight.

Good night!


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Sunday, November 22, 2009

Thank you...

...for the emails, comments, posts and messages from those relating to my frustration. I probably would not have posted it if I thought those feelings and experiences were unique to me.


Well, we are just continuing to wait and thankful we can check another day off the calender. I am so praying the passports will be ready tomorrow. That would make me very happy.


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Thursday, November 19, 2009

The Last Few Days

Well we are on the bus halfway to Kyiv from Odessa. It is a VIP bus so it is actually quite comfortable....thank goodness as it will take us 5.5 hours to get there.

Monday evening after the court decree was corrected Yana waited around for the judge to sign it but he never came back. So Tuesday morning she went back for the signed final decree.

From there we headed to get the kids birth certificates after dropping of the kids and taking care of a few things at the orphanage.

The trip to Tarterbury took about an hour. We were expecting about an hours wait for the birth certificates while the orphanage jurist (lawyer) went to meet with the inspector for a letter of permission to close out the kids bank accounts as required by the bank....we did not need this when we did this for Nadia as far as I know.

However the inspector in Izmail said she was not the inspector that needed to give this approval because she was not the one to register the children and now the inspector in Tarterbury was saying the children are no longer under her and it is the responsibility of the inspector in Izmail. LOUD phone calls made to the bank by the jurist (she was the loud one) and Yana resulted in them finally being told we have permission to close the accounts without it.

But the drama did not end there. There was "discussion" as to whether Dan's name should be on the birth certificates. I won't go into all the details of that craziness but a phone call to Odessa and waiting for a returned call, a one hour lunch break, a half hour without electricity and a woman who didn't give a darn and it took 5 hours for it all to be completed. Thankfully Dan's name is on both birth certificates.

With this delay we got back to Izmail too late to see the notary or handle the bank accounts...we would have to stay another night before heading to Odessa.

Again, THANKFULLY, I was still able to sign the kids out of the orphanage. :)

When we got there Olya spotted me from down the hall and sprinted towards me to give me a great big hug. It brought back memories of showing up in Sakhnovschina to adopt Yana and her sprint towards me (maybe Dan will find that post on the first blog and post the link). The kids were obviously thrilled.

Of course I was very happy but was tired and concerned we were falling behind. On our way out we said goodbye to Natasha (a sweet girl and aged out orphan)...she was crying. Even as I type this my heart is broken for her...she just wants a family. Hard to put that aside and do a happy dance. Natasha represents the thousands of kids who age out every year and will never know the love of a family.

Later back at the hotel the kids were all settled in. We were ready to get an early move out in the morning. We were to hit the bank first then to the notary then to Odessa to apply for their new tax I'd numbers and passports.

We arrived at the bank just before 8 when they were to open. We are there fifteen minutes working on this and then are told we had to wait for the money to be delivered. Interesting since the jurist had been working on this since last week and the bank said then they needed to know how I would want the money because they needed to order it. In any case, we were told it would take about an hour.

An hour later the woman from the bank and the jurist would have to go get the money from the central bank...we continued to wait.

THEN maybe an hour later we hear the bank is insisting on this letter of permission from the inspector. *sigh*

Yana, the jurist and the woman from the bank go to see the inspector who eventually agrees to write the letter...she says she will call Yana when it is ready. So we wait. After more time than it could possibly take to write this letter 1:00 is almost upon us and the bank closes for lunch from 1-2. Yana decides to head back to the inspectors office and wait.

The wait continues....and you know what I forget what other ridiculous things happen from there. I only know I was able to take care of Olya's account first but needed something more for Ivan's. It took 7 hours to do what we thought would take 1 hour. There was no way we would make it to Odessa by the close of business. We officially fell a day behind.

I won't even bother posting about the awful, dusty bed we slept in last night. Ivan took some pics of me today and you can see my eyes swollen underneath...not an enjoyable night.

Today was a much better day. We completed all we needed to do in Odessa and are currently on our way to Kyiv where we will stay until our flight home.

There is still hope we will get the passports back in time for us to get their visas and make our flight home next Thursday. Please pray the passport will be ready on Monday. This will give us 2 days to finish off the rest of the process (it will take a day for the completed passports to get from Odessa to us in Kyiv). If they are not done until Tuesday we should be alright as the US Embassy will help us out to get the visas back in a day so we can make our flight. If the passports are not done by Tuesday then the earliest we will be able to come home is Saturday since the Embassy will be closed for Thanksgiving. Of course this will be a very expensive change in flights so....please keep praying!

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Tuesday, November 17, 2009

For Those Out of The Loop...

We got the court decree, birth certificates, adoption certificates and I have signed the kids out of the orphanage FOREVER.

We did not accomplish all we needed to accomplish in Izmail so we are spending one more night here then will head to Odessa in the morning.

I will have to post details another time...may take me a few days though...but know many were waiting to hear whether today was a successful or not.


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Monday, November 16, 2009

Mondays Update

Ok I am more peaceful now...by the grace of God.

We WILL lose a day but not because of this but because the kids have bank accounts I need to close out and the bank is requiring some approval from the inspector in the village where the children were born. That means when we go to get birth certificates we cannot just continue on to Odessa but must come back to Izmail to do the bank thing. There is not enough time in the business day to get to Odessa in time to apply for the passports. So....one more day in Izmail and one less day of cushion before our flight home.

Also a mistake on one of the childrens names in the court decree is needing to be fixed today. Yana is doing that now...I hope it is done quickly and does not cause further delay. UPDATE: the decree is fixed but judge a no show to sign. He better be there first thing in the am or we can be delayed further tomorrow. Praying!

Interesting...and stupid really...in order for them to give us the new birth certificates they are requiring the kids to submit notarized letters approving of their name change and the parents names on the birth certificate. Yana has never had this or heard of this before. Makes no sense to me but whatever.

The better news from today it that I wad able to pick up the kids at 5:00 to stay the night at the hotel. That was my biggest issue today...telling them they would have to sleep there for another night, so this makes it all okay. I mean, I have been in the Ukrainian adoption process for nearly 5 yrs straight, I KNOW nothing ever goes as expected...not one adoption. If you are not flexible then don't adopt from Ukraine.

However, this does not mean that I don't with the Ukrainian government really wanted these kids adopted so I can bust out a few random and senseless last minute "rules" myself...like, I would really like if someone would play the UA National Anthem on the banjo when the new birth certificates were being handed over to me...this should be my requirement. And I would prefer some clowns and balloons in the court room...just to lighten things up. Why not? Ukraine...love it or hate it. I love it but don't always like it.

Oh yeah and just let the hotel staff know we are staying one more day but sounds like they have plans for our room. Maybe we can go ahead and leave for Odessa tomorrow. We'll see.

Prayers please!

PS this may have been the fastest day of my life. I suppose after sitting for 2 weeks that's what happens when there's finally things to be done.



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One mad mama!!

Apparently this court requires 10 BUSINESS DAYS! They will not give the decree until tomorrow!

Yana called and asked several times when we could pick it up and every time they told her Monday.

I am so......mad! Not Yana's fault....stupid court. It is not business days...they are ridiculous! Now I have to tell the kids one more night. :( they even brought their new clothes to wear today for when they leave sp they will not have to change from the orphanage clothes to leave there.

I'm so upset. Now going to bring gifts and beg for them to stay with me anyway.

Yana said there is very little we can accomplish today without the court decree but we will try. We will still try to do everything tomorrow so we do not fall behind a day.


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Sunday, November 15, 2009

Where in Ukraine?


I made this map for all of you folks that would like to know a little more about where things are, where they are, where they are going, etc etc. I also want to show Michelle some things that may help her understand her travels better.
The map is of Ukraine. I have tagged eleven places for your viewing pleasure.
First: In the upper center there are two arrows.
One is Kyiv, the capital of Ukraine, where the State Department of Adoptions (SDA), airport, and really cool stuff is located. Everyone adopting from Ukraine will begin and end their Ukrainian journey in this city.
Above Kyiv is Chernobyl. I have no other reason for identifying this than I am fascinated by it.
South from Kyiv is Kirovhorad. This is where all our recent host program visitors came from. This one was thrown in for all you recent host families who still wonder where they live.
South still further is Odessa. This is a culturally advanced city full of authors, poets, sculptors, and painters. It is the vacation place for Ukrainians and Russians alike. It is also the city where some dear friends just adopted beautiful children. Odessa is the capital of the region and is where Ivan and Olya will need to apply for their Ukrainian passports.
The train Michelle and the kids take runs pretty straight north and south between Kyiv and Odessa. That is a six hour overnight train ride.
Southwest from Odessa I drew a pink line. This is the road Michelle and Nadia took to get to Izmayil. They did have to leave Ukraine and enter Moldava for a while. It was a three hour ride from Odessa to Izmayil.
Along that road is Tatarbunary. This is the town where both Ivan and Olya were born. This is where the birth certificate needs to be completed. It is closer to Izmayil than to Odessa, but not by much.
All the way south now, that is Izmayil. It sits on the Danube River. The other side of the river...Romania. This is the city where Michelle found our children and has been living for the last three weeks. Her photos of Ivan and Olya have all come from this area.
Romania closed it's doors to international adoption about a decade ago. We are literally coming about as close as anyone gets to adopting out of Romania any more.
All the way to the west on the map is an arrow pointing out L'viv. This is the site of the big flu scare that everyone is in an uproar over.
Far to the east is our Ukrainian "base". Kharkiv is the region both Yana and Nadia came from. Nadia's baby house was located in the city of Kharkiv itself. Yana's Internat (Boarding School/Orphanage) was located in Sakhnovshchina. Yana was born in Zhovtneve, just north of Kharkiv. Nadia was born in Volchansk, northeast of Kharkiv.
That is what all these arrows are.
FYI...Izmayil and Izmail are the same place. Izmail is transliterated from Russian. Izmayil is transliterated from Ukrainian. The spelling difference is due to a pronunciation variation in the two languages. I choose to use the Izmayil spelling because it is Ukraine...not Russia.
Just like Kyiv is spelled Kyiv and not Kiev. One is transliterated from Ukrainian and one from Russian. It is a Ukrainian city...use the Ukrainian transliteration when writing...but do searches using both. When applying for adoption you better spell it Kyiv! It will be noticed.
Click on the map and it gets bigger so you can read it better...just read this first so you know what everything is.
Enjoy :-)

Oops...meant to post this one

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Saturday, November 14, 2009

A Day of Blessings & Surprise!

Today our 10-day wait for any appeals after court was up. We made it!

Nadia and I rushed up and out of the hotel to pick the kids up from the orphanage by 11:00. Later in the afternoon Natasha met us at the hotel and we headed out. We had lunch then walked down to the Port of Izmail to look at Romania from across the river.

There really was nothing to see on the other side...just cool to know I was standing so close and looking right into Romania. I think Dan is right, we have gotten as close to adopting from Romania as you possibly can at this point.

We had a great day and I was ready for an early bedtime. After dinner I gave the kids their 5 minute heads-up that I was about call the taxi so I could bring them back to the orphanage. Ivan was confused and wasn't understanding what I was saying...which was odd. Once he understood he looked very surprised and said no, they were staying here at the hotel. We went back and forth because no person of any authority to give such permission had said anything to me. He said his teacher said it was okay. Hmmm...even if she told him that the Asst Director didn't tell me that when we spoke on Thursday.

So we got Natasha on the phone and I asked her to talk to Ivan to help me understand. After talking with him she told me she thought I should bring them back because the teachers (caregivers) have switched shifts and if this caregiver was not aware there would be a problem...I completely agreed. I asked if the Asst Director had indicated they could stay when we spoke. She said that the Asst Dir only said they could come for Saturday and Sunday but did not specifically say whether they could sleep here or I needed to bring them back each day like last weekend.

I felt awful though...Ivan looked upset, disappointed and was angry with Natasha because he said she did not know what she was talking about. Obviously the kids thought they were staying and here I was telling them I needed to take them back because I'm afraid if there was a misunderstanding we could have very big problems.

Then Olya remembered she had the Asst Dir cell number and they could call her. I trusted that if they called and asked her they would tell me what she said....and she confirmed they could stay. Wow! What a wonderful surprise for me!!

So they are here. They are all showered & clean and in their new pajamas. They are so happy...its truly awesome. Unfortunately they will have one more night at the orphanage before they are mine to keep (kind of silly and makes little sense to me) but one less night there and a taste of afterhours with their new family. :)

I can go to sleep with a smile on. :))



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Friday, November 13, 2009

We Continue The Countdown

Well, I still do not have custody of the kids but its okay. I was told that the sick children are moved to the hospital and of those who are only 2 had fevers. I felt much better hearing this.

Tomorrow and Sunday I am allowed to pick the kids up and bring them to the hotel. However, I am thinking about taking a walk along the river to take some pictures. On the other side of the river we drive by each day, is Romania!

We are also considering meeting up for pizza with another American family. Everyone keeps telling me not to worry so much about keeping the kids in the hotel but...I don't know. If we just hit those 2 places tomorrow that would be really cool. We'll see.

The kids are doing great and are so excited to get out of the orphanage for the next two days then leave it forever on Monday. I am excited too.

Okay its been an emotional night and I need sleep. Please lift Colleen and her 15 year old son, Harrison in prayer. He has been admitted to the hospital today after having a seizure in the ER, coded and stopped breathing. Praying for H's full recovery and peace & strength for Colleen.
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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Asking For Prayers Tonight

I am asking for your prayers tonight for tomorrow specifically...I am feeling that I really want to plead my case for taking the kids out a few days early due to the rise of infected children in the orphanage and news reports. I know we are under God's protection whether we are here or home...or elsewhere...so I'm not panicking but I believe it is in our families best interest if the kids are with me.


In addition to the painful look on Ivan's face when he was asking what time of day Monday they could leave and I had to explain that some Directors require the birth certificate in hand first...which mean an extra day there, I know we will be in a "safer" environment...them, me and Nadia at the hotel.


After we leave here and pass through Odessa to apply for passports, we will be spending our last week in an extremely rural part of Kyiv. A good friend has a family apartment we can stay in...much more affordable than in the city of Kyiv. It is so rural there is only one small store for perhaps chips and soda (though I don't do soda). We will be stocking up on food to bring with us. There are no commuter buses to catch...we will be in the nature. Survivor Ukraine...with beds and heating. :)


So while the initial reason for heading there was due to affordability the benefit is to be away from the crowds of people spreading germs. If one of us gets sick we will all likely get sick. I do NOT want us to get stuck here.


With the political garbage it is hard to decipher what is true and what is hype...scare tactics. In any case my job as mom is to protect my children...and myself so I am able to care for my all my children and husband.

So tomorrow I will ask...plead with the Asst Director to take the children. Will you please lift this in prayer?

http://baltimorechronicle.com/2009/111109Lendman.shtml


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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Went For a Stroll... (part 2)

Can you understand why strollers and wheelchairs don't exactly work here?

And cab rides are wild! They drive around these pot holes and pass other vehicles on these small roads without slowing down. They have a thing about seat covers so no accessible seatbelts in the back and when I'm up front because my 3 kids are in the back, I have been told by numerous taxi drivers that I don't need my seatbelt! I laugh and say "daaaa!" ("yes").

So each day I am riding in the back-seat with Nadia on my lap...doing over 80 kph (I'm scared to know what that is when calculated into mph), getting bumped all around like I'm in the rodeo...I am praying praying praying!

I guess I should have started this post with "mom, don't read this one".
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Went For a Stroll... (part 1)

...through Izmial.


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Chas, Chas, Chas! (wait, wait, wait!)

Yup, we're still waiting...just counting down the days until we are together and they never have to go back.

Are the kids getting anxious? Heck yeah they are?! They gave up on doing school work but the teachers don't bother them. Apparently supper is fed in the 3:00 hour but sometimes at 3 or just before and sometimes not until after 3:30. The problem is that I can only visit between 3-5 on schooldays and I keep ending up there when it is time for them to eat even when I try to come a little later. I have no problem waiting while they eat but they seem to be through with the garbage they are fed. They rather spend time with me and apparently are throwing their other meals away too (mostly Ivan).

I don't like that he says he is only eating one meal a day and told him I am worried he will get sick but he assures me he is fine.

They are just so very obviously done with this place and in agony waiting to get out. I wish there were something I can do but there isn't. :(

Something else they had mentioned about meals was what they are given to drink. I know Nadia seemed to be given watered down "hot" tea when she was at the baby house. They said they get ONE glass of juice every 3 or 4 days. Other times they get tea (likely watered down), water, or kefir (blech!). The water is from the faucet. People here drink bottled water and warn you to boil tap water before drinking but have no problems giving such water to the orphans. Ugh!

This is the first adoption where I think of little orphan Annie when I visit. There are kids sweeping the dirt on the tore up black top, kids just looking like they are doing awful chores for no real purpose but to keep them busy.

Today there was a little boy who took a seat at the couch with us when I came. He looked like he was waiting for something from me (darn that American guy who was handing out candy to every kid that passed by yesterday!) Eventually his friend came by and they walked off with their arms over each others shoulders. I wad thinking "what a cute little boy...probably about 10 years old". But once they walked away Ivan told me the boys smoke. I asked how old he was and Ivan said 14. I was like "no way! He is such a little boy...he looks maybe 10". Ivan just matter of factly said "14....little...smoking". Apparently convinced this kid has stunted his growth from smoking. Hmmm...

I know lots of kids there smoke...not uncommon in orphanages. I am happy however that Ivan and Olya seem disgusted by it and think the other kids are stupid for doing it....not that I want them to think anyone is stupid but I like that they know better.

Which reminds me, yesterday Ivan's teacher came to talk to me again. She went on about how she will miss him and will always wonder how he is doing. She said there are only 3 good boys in the orphanage and Ivan is one...maybe she meant in his class?? Anyway, not a competition but point is he is a good boy. I'm a proud mama already.

And I have heard many wonderful things about Olya as well from her teacher but we have not spoken as much with someone around to translate. She has told me that Olya is a good girl (obvious this is true of both kids) and she is always smiling...I can tell that already too.

Well 5 more days until we break them free. I am praying the orphanage will not insist on having their birth certificates before releasing them...as some orphanages do. If that is the case then we will have to wait an extra day because the birth cert people don't work on Mondays. *Sigh*

The good news is, I have purchased our plane tickets home today! God willing, we will be flying home on Thanksgiving day. There are always risks booking flights this early on as there could always be some unexpected delays but this is our best calculation and there was an awesome deal on flights that I did not want to miss out on. Please keep praying all will go smoothly and we wouldn't mind if the days went by a little faster too! :)

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Sunday, November 8, 2009

If Only I Knew...

When my taxi pulled up to the orphanage today, Ivan and Olya were standing outside the gate waiting! I have no idea how long they were there but they lit up when they saw me and ran to get into the car. I hadn't given them a time I planned to come and have been coming at various times depending on the day, although I did arrive approximately the same time today as I did yesterday.

Each day we are together I learn more. What is different about this adoption experience from the others is that Ivan points out things that I would not have otherwise known. Like at dinner tonight he explained they have no forks or knives, only spoons. Their food is pureed (sp?) and heaped on top of each other...a big pile of mush! He said some kids like it but most do not....he does not! He said the teachers have theirs served separately on the plate but the children just have theirs slapped on top. :(

It is times like this that my heart just feels so sad. As I told them tonight, "I didn't know. I didn't know you were here...I would have come for you a long time ago." I can't sit in this emotional grief for very long...it will do no good and I truly didn't know. It is such a heavy burden on my heart to know that Yana, Nadia, Ivan and Olya were waiting for so many years to escape this life...for a family to love them. It makes me so sad. What about the times they were hurt or were scared? Who hugged them, loved them and reassured them it would alright? How many times did they have to soothe themselves or try to protect themselves from things a mother or father should have been protecting them from? My children were infants, babies, toddlers and did not get the love and care they would have if they were with us then. And for the older 3, they were young adolescents learning about life, friends and their surroundings but who as really teaching?

God thank you for bringing my babies home to me. It's been wayyy too long. :(

On the lighter side of things [deep breath as I try to pull myself together], gassy Nadia stirred up another topic that had me laughing to tears...Ivan explained that lots of kids are gassy at the orphanage. LOL He said one boy passes gas and all the other kids run because it is so bad. He said there are always boys passing gas and it's so bad he prays "God, please I go to America. I no like this." ROFL That's the first time I have heard him mention prayer. LOL

So as we countdown the days until they have lived out their final sentence there (7 more days) the kids are getting more and more anxious to break free (who can blame them!). They are telling me I will come take them on Sunday. I was trying to explain it would not be until Monday but they insist they are going to beg and plead to leave on Sunday. That one day seems to be a big deal. I told them "okay...you beg and cry...I will take photographs" :) At least we now know WHO they should beg to if we even want a shot at them getting out early. I'm not getting my hopes up, I assume I will not get them until Monday.



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Saturday, November 7, 2009

I LOVE IT!!

Just got this pic from Dan. Mom bought us the sticker family and said she hoped I would like it...ha! Dan and I have been wanting to get them but were waiting to see what or shall I say WHO would come of this adoption.

Anyway, I absolutely LOVE it!

Hey, C, what do you think about Chourney being included in our family stickers? LOL


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Another Blessed Day!

Time to update the blog....
You remember the Dunkin Donuts commercial...time to make the donuts...right? LOL. Anyway I am half asleep; I was trying to wait for Nadia to sleep for some uninterrupted time but fell asleep myself. :)

Despite the quarantine, I was able to get the kids out today. With Natasha's encouraging, I asked the Assistant Director (?) if I could take them back to the hotel during the days on the weekends. I spoke just a few words and Natasha seemed to translate a novel! Apparently "I" was explaining it is so hard to visit with Nadia not being able to walk and I promise not to take them on any public transportation, into stores or restaurants but stay in our hotel room. Thanks Natasha (good warning from now on when asking a child to translate for you). In any case, she was sympathetic and said she understood. So I got the kids for the day! The kids were ecstatic!!

This morning Nadia and I jumped out of bed (around 10 lol) and rushed out the door to the supermarket (by the way, today I was without a jacket again...beautiful fall weather!). We picked up food for lunch and some juice & snacks. I requested dinner for 4 from the hotel then was off to pick up the kids for the day. I figured as long as I had a way to feed them, we should be fine to be restricted to the hotel all day.

While visiting, I offered Olya to take a real shower which she jumped at the opportunity to do. Last night at the orphanage I passed 2 very young boys...maybe 7 yrs old...caring full, heavy looking buckets of water down the hall...splashing all the way. I only mentioned for the kids to be careful because I did not know if the floor would become slippery (doh! Not cement!) and Ivan explained it was bath night. It is not new information to me that the kids sponge bathe and only once a week but something I forget is a reality for them. I knew Ivan had bathed already when I arrived this morning, he smelled like cologne and confirmed so. Olya apparently missed the boat somehow so was thankful she could shower here.

We had a great day listening to music, drawing pictures for each other (Ivan likes to do this, Olya definitely does not). I taught Ivan how to play Soduku...he liked it until he made mistakes and it became more difficult and gave up. The girls blew bubbles, they all took turns playing computer games and making pictures on Ashley's notebook. We sorted and prepared gifts for caregivers and had Ivan write up THANK YOU cards from Dan & me. We had lunch, ate candy then at 6 had a wonderful homecooked meal prepared by Kateryna (the owner of the hotel). It was a great day!

To see the kids interact with Nadia is just so heart warming. I laugh to myself trying to picture Nadia with both Yana and Olya in the house. Olya plays with Nadia like Yana does, even runs and hides from her if she is not looking..like Yana does lol. I think Nadia is going to be in big sister heaven on earth and imagine it might make her explode....Nadia has the best 3 big sisters and it may be more than she will know how to handle...seriously, I don't think Nadia will know what to do...who to yell for and insist on carrying and caring for her when I need assistance or she wants to play. Oh and imagine the pain and agony she will endure when Yana and Olya go up to their room to play or run out the door to jump on the trampoline. Hills family, we should brace ourselves now. LOL

I decided to VERY briefly tell the kids about our attempts adopt "Grace" this summer. Someday when they really can speak and understand English I will share more about our adoption journey with them but for now I just wanted to be able to share the videos of Anthony, Yana and Dan that were on my camera. They were all talking to "Grace" so I hadn't previously showed them but thought they would enjoy seeing them "in action" and hearing them talk.

Ivan watched intently while Olya laughed along with us in the video...she was even waving back at Papa lol. When it was over I said, "crazy family?" and Olya said "nooo, goOod family!" She (they) truly are so very happy.

The other day I drew up a not so fancy calender. I used pictures to show when I would be able to take custody of them, when we will take the train from Odessa to Kyiv, the days we will spend in Kyiv and when we should be headed to America. I was thinking that with each visit Nadia could cross off the day. I want Ivan and Olya to know the plan but had been feeling like Nadia needs to really be able to see that we will be going home eventually (she misses home and everyone in it SO much). However, Olya loved the calendar so much and liked that she could cross off the days, she asked to keep it. I think I will make something less complicated for Nadia...small stretches of time, like countdown until the kids will come stay with us THEN countdown until home. I asked Olya today if we had 8 days until they leave the orphanage and she very enthusiastically said "yes" and squealed :) Think they are ready?

So we are getting there. The days aren't dragging, so that's good. We are comfortable and have no real problems so there is much to be thankful for. If anyone of us needs more prayer now I would say it is Nadia. She had a rough 2-3 days...lots of meltdowns. Then yesterday no tears! Today 2 meltdowns but always when we truly get to the bottom of it, she is homesick :( We are only halfway through our journey here, she (I, we) needs your prayers.

Hugs from Izmial!
M


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Thursday, November 5, 2009

US Embassy Public Notice

Wow! Got in just in time, huh?

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‪Dear Members of the American Adoption Community:‬‪‬‪

 On November 3, 2009, Ukraine's central adoption authority, the State Department for Adoption and Protection of the Rights of the Child (SDAPRC)informed the U.S. Embassy in Kyiv that it was suspending the issuances of referrals for both Ukrainian and foreign adoptive parents to visit Ukrainian orphanages due to the increased incidence of H1N1 in Ukraine. 

According to this notice,  no prospective adoptive parents (either Ukrainian or from other countries) will be allowed to visit orphanages to meet their prospective adoptive children beginning November 3, 2009, until the measures taken by the Ukrainian Government are lifted. These measures include a cancellation of large public gatherings and suspension of school and university classes, but do not include travel restrictions. 

The SDAPRC will keep all pre-scheduled appointments and the adoptive families will still be able to choose children from the database, but these families will not be able to visit children and start the adoption process in the regions. 

Alternatively, foreign families may cancel their appointments at SDAPRC (they do not need to do anything special to cancel these appointments) and their appointments will be re-scheduled as soon as the Ukrainian government's temporary measures are ended. ‬‪

As of the posting of this notice, it is unclear how long this suspension will remain in effect, but according to the SDAPRC it may last  from three to six weeks, unless the Ukrainian government decides to end the H1N1 measures sooner.    ‬‪

According to the SDAPRC, several foreign families with the referrals issued on November 2, 2009, were already denied access to the orphanages. ‬‪

The SDAPRC was required to enact this suspension in accordance with the Decree Number 3813 issued by the Ukrainian  Minister for Family, Youth and Sports Yuriy Pavlenko, dated October 30, 2009.  This decree was issued based on the Resolution of the Cabinet of Ministers of Ukraine Number 1152, dated October 30, 2009. ‬‪

We will continue to monitor the situation and will post updates as they become available. ‬‪‬‪‬‪Please do not hesitate to contact us if you have any additional questioning

Sincerely,
,‬‪Adoption Unit/Immigrant Visa Section
Consular Section
American EmbassyKyiv, Ukraine
Tel: 38-044-4904422Fax: 38-044-490-4570Kyivadoptions@state.gov
Http://kyiv.usembassy.gov/amalgamations

In accordance with E.O. 12958 this message is not classified.‬
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Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Introducing....

Ivan Nicklas Hills and Olya Diane Hills!

Praise God, they are orphans no more!!

The adoption was granted but the 10-days was not waived. My happiness over the favourable decision from the court for the adoption outshines all other disappointments in regard to the children today.

In addition to not waiving the 10-days, I am not allowed to take custody of the children until we have the final court decree. The 10-day wait ends on a Saturday so we will have an additional day to wait so we will pick it up on Monday the 16th.

And there's more...because there seems to be a few sick children at the orphanage it looks like I will no longer be able to take the children out during visits. :( we will go there to visit between school hours for one hour each day.

Ivan was obviously disappointed they would not be able to come stay with me. Olya was just so happy the adoption went through, she smiled and said "it's okay mommy" when I growled lol (grrr). She was so excited, hugging and squeezing Nadia tight.

So we will get the court decree on the 16th. Those who will give the birth certificate do not work on Mondays..ugh! So we will do that on the 17th and should hopefully make it to Odessa to apply for the passports that same day.

We will then continue on to Kyiv until the passports are ready...someone else will pick them up and deliver them to us. By that point it will be probably Tuesday Nov. 24. We will TRY to get everything done in Kyiv on the 24th so we can fly out on the 25th but may not make it out until the 26th. I guess we will have to make a plan for plane tickets as we get closer.

As far as the kids owning 1/4th of a family apt (probably a dump) they will not need to divest (give up ownership) just deregister...which can be done at the orphanage easily without any delay. So they will continue to maintain ownership over this portion of the apt.

So there you have it. I'm exhausted already...not so much for sleep last night...an old friend passed away yesterday at the young age of 34. My heart is so heavy for her family and this loss of life. When I woke this morning I learned my Anthony was in the ER yesterday evening because he somehow cut off a chunk of his thumb with some scissors. I guess it is somewhat of a minor injury but still not easy being mom and so far away :(



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Monday, November 2, 2009

Prayer Request

The flu epidemic has made its way to Ukraine. 9 regions are under quarantine! They have closed all schools, universities, cinemas, concerts and all large events for 3 weeks across the whole country! I am afraid we will get stuck here and of course the medical facilities and care are not what they are in America.

At 2am EST Tuesday morning we will have court for the adoption of Ivan & Olya. There is a mandatory 10 day wait to allow for any appeals before we can receive the final decree so we can move forward with the remainder of the process. We are praying for a positive court hearing and that the 10 days will be waived so we can possibly be home by the end of next week...as long as the flu epidemic is not declared in Odessa and/or Kyiv.

http://www.kyivpost.com/news/nation/detail/51689/

Please lift us and our adoption in prayer.


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